Here is a Dominant's Questionnaire for those of you wanting to find out more about the Dominant. If your relationship is far enough along and you feel like you need to ask Him questions...this is an excellent way to find out about each other....likes and dislikes and the experience He has had or wants to experience.. Always ask Him first if He'd take the time to fill it out and that you will fill one out for the sub and return it to Him. {Be wary of those unwilling to fill it out...as new subs...it's impossible to know everything to ask of a Dom }and this is one way to get some needed information about Him..before you meet.
To the Dom:
Please copy and paste this to a new document or email and then fill in Your reply.
BASIC INFORMATION:
Screen Name:
Other Screen Names (optional):
Real Name (optional):
Age (can be a range, i.e. "30's"):
Real World Location (can be a region or area):
Physical Description (all optional):
Height:
Weight:
Eye Color:
Hair Color:
Facial Hair:Characteristics (things you'd like known about you, physically):
Occupation (optional):
Non-D/s Interests/Hobbies:
Favorite Music Types:
Favorite Reading:
Favorite Non-D/s Leisure Time Activities:
Marital/Relationship Status (required):
D/s INFORMATION:
Which statement best suits you:
I live D/s lifestyle every day in most activities:
I live D/s lifestyle frequently when in relationship:
I live D/s lifestyle occasionally in relationship:
I live D/s lifestyle in "scenes" or "play" only:
I use D/s only in "scenes" or "play":
I do not live D/s lifestyle but would with correct sub:
I would not live D/s lifestyle but would use for "play" with correct sub:
(Other statement which best suits you):
Are you interested in:
On-Line Relationship ONLY:
On-Line/Phone Relationship ONLY:
Real Time Relationship ONLY:
On-Line/Phone/Real Time Relationship Combination:
Do you currently have a sub/slave:
Are you currently seeking a sub/slave:
Will you "mentor" a sub/slave:
Would you take on "multiple subs":
Can or would you travel to meet/be with a sub:
Would you have a sub travel to meet you:
Are you experienced with:
On-Line D/s:
Phone D/s:
Real Time D/s:
Previous Relationships:
Have you ever had a "collared" sub:
On-Line Only:
Real Time:
(Why did that relationship terminate, current relationship with that sub)
D/s SOCIAL:
Would you expect a sub to perform the following and if so, how often:
(Rating scale: "O" (occasionally). "F" (frequently). "A" (at all times when applicable).
Kneeling (clothed):
Kneeling (naked):
Wearing bondage outside "scenes" (crotch ropes, etc.):
Wearing toys outside "scenes" (nipple clamps, etc.):
Wearing toys/bondage in public:
"Correct posture" outside "scenes" (define):
Sexual situations in public:
Wearing D/s collar in public:
Wearing D/s collar in private:
Performing "instructions" (delivered on-line or phone):
Would you require a standard form of dress for the sub in private (if so, what):
Would you require a standard form of dress for the sub in public (if so, what):
What form of address would you expect from the sub for yourself and others (check applicable):
Yourself:
Sir:
Master:
First name:
Mr. (last name):
Other males (non-Dom):
Sir:
First name:
Mr. (last name):
Other males (Dom):
Sir:
First name:
Mr. (last name):
Non-D/s females:
Ma'am:
Miss:
Madam:
First name:
Ms. (last name):
What aspects of your subs' life would you want to control (check all applicable):
Choice of clothing:
Choice of food:
Daily activities:
Special occasion activities (non-sexual):
Sexual activities:
Social contacts:
Sleeping hours:
Bathing/toilet rituals:
Business/professional life:
D/s "SCENES":
Check all areas of Interest to you as a Dom (experienced or not), REAL TIME ONLY. IF EXPERIENCED, rate your experience. If you would expect an area to occur frequently or wish to experiment with an area, state "YES":
(Rating scale: 1 - tried it once. 2 - tried a few times. 3 - basic knowledge and experience. 4. - proficient/advanced. 5. - use in most or all "scenes")
ACTIVITY: Of Interest: Experience: Expected:
Bondage (light):
Bondage (heavy):
Intricate Rope Bondage:
Handcuffing:
"Mummification":
Strap Bondage:
Chains:
Restraints (leather or other):
Gags:
Blindfolds:
Suspension:
Inverted Suspension:
Breast Clamping:
Labia Clamping:
Spanking:
Cropping:
Flogging:
Whipping:
Heat (wax or other):
Cold (ice or other):
Mild Pain:
Intense Pain:
Toys (vaginally inserted}:
Toys {anally inserted}:
Toys (external}:
Witholding Orgasms:
Inducing Multiple Orgasms:
Humiliation {private}:
Humiliation {public}:
Drawing Blood:
Water Sports {golden showers}:
Multiple Partners {male}:
Multiple Partners {female}:
Public Play {private parties}:
Public Play {Dungeons}:
Oral Service of you:
Oral Service of the sub:
Cock Worship:
Anal Worship:
Using sub as Furniture:
Rituals performed by Sub:
Breast Bondage:
Cuffs: Leather:
Cuffs: Rope:
Needle/Pin Play:
Would you desire to "share" your sub with others: YES or NO
(If "YES", state the circumstances and likely other partners)
Would you wish your sub to have any of the following (check applicable):
Tattoo of ownership:
Branding of ownership:
Collar (or bracelet) worn constantly:
Screen name change to reflect ownership:
List any "scene" or "play" activities which you WOULD NOT DO under any circumstances:
PUNISHMENTS:
What forms of punishments would you use on a disobedient sub:
Writing assignments:
Meditation:
Corporal Punishment (spanking, whipping, etc.):
Bondage (any form):
Removal of privilages:
Loss of Contact with you:
Withholding orgasms/pleasure:
Other (please state):
REWARDS:
What forms of rewards would you give a pleasing sub:
Small "presents" (flowers, etc.):
Extra privilages:
Additional "play":
Personal momentos (inc. letters to her, etc.):
Any other information you would like to supply regarding yourself: